What do I do if we've broken up many times?

There's a reason you keep breaking up! You have not fixed the underlying relationship dynamic that cause each of you to split then come together again.

Being together again is not enough. Bait Him Back and Bait Her Back is effective because you learn how to fix the problematic relationship dynamics. Research shows most relationship and romance problems stem from an imbalance revealed and corrected by the courses. When you correct imbalances, the relationship becomes harmonious and passionate.

You don't need the other person to fix such dynamics. It's best done by yourself. I suggest you get Bait Him Back or Bait Her Back so you learn how to get together again for good.